I’ll start this off by saying I apologize in advance for any inaccuracies about cultures. I’m speaking based on my own understanding.
But still. I’ve eaten a lot of different kinds of foods with a lot of different kinds of people. As a lover of international cuisine, I am quite passionate about authenticity so I work hard to seek out the spots that aren’t touristy, but the places where folks of that same culture go to get food (When eating Greek, go where the Greeks go!).
And I notice different cultures have different ways of eating that I find inspiring. I think I’ve learned something about eating in general from every culture whose food I’ve tasted but here are a few highlights.
Judaism
While I’ve not experienced eating at a real Seder, my church once re-enacted a Seder (I told a Jewish friend what we ate and she tried very hard not to laugh). What strikes me about this ritual meal is that each food represents something. It tells a story, conveys an experience. There is a ceremony to eating at a Seder and that’s for a purpose as well (I won’t even go into trying to explain the purpose. I know I have Jewish Foodies who can spare me the taste of my foot in my mouth!)
The Big Lesson: It’s ok for food to have meaning beyond fuel for your body. Your family’s dishes are steeped in history and experience. I think in this modern age we sometimes get away from that. That’s why, for me, cooking with others (especially others that I love) is so meaningful. We actually talk about how we came upon the dishes we are making, how others made them before us, what sensory memories we have as a result.
Ethiopian
I think Ethiopian should be the official food culture of Bariatric Foodie. What says playing with your food better than eating with your hands? Many African cultures eat with their hands, using a piece of food as their utensil. In Ethiopia the most common food-utensil is Injera Bread. I admit I wasn’t always a fan. It’s a flat bread that has a soft, almost sponge-like texture and is slightly sour. When you go to an Ethiopian restaurant you can get foods served on a gigantic piece of Injera bread and to eat the foods on top of it you tear bits of the bread and scoop the food up.
The Big Lesson: It’s ok for eating to be fun. Also eating is function of more than just filling our bellies. Yes, we already know it involves the tongue and the different parts of the digestive tract but there is also a certain satisfaction derived from having your hands in food. I find when I cook and I have my hands in food, I eat a lot less. My theory? Part of my need to be in communion with food is satisfied by touching it. I don’t always need to taste it!
Chinese
Dim Sum, anyone? That’s a term that references a style of eating Chinese food where instead of one big plate of food you are served very small portions of many different things.
I would call Dim Sum the official food culture of Bariatric Foodie BUT there is the possibility of going completely overboard (and I have even as a post-op).
What strikes me as so special about Dim Sum, though, is the care that goes into creating such a tiny amount of food. When I’ve been presented my little plate it’s been beautifully arranged and even though it’s only one or two bites they are deeply satisfying.
The Big Lesson: It’s not the quantity of food on your plate that makes for a great eating experience, but the quality. Good food tastes better! I used to think since I couldn’t eat much there was no point in putting any effort into my food. I soon found I was wrong! Mindfully and carefully preparing well flavored dishes is a source of joy in my life.
Japanese
Now I’m not sure if Hibachi is straight-up Japanese or Japanese-American (I’m sure someone will chime in with the answer) but I absolutely LOVE going to hibachi restaurants. If you’ve never been, it’s essentially a table where you sit with others (who you may or may not know) and in the center is a grill where the chef cooks your food for you. In the process he does some neat tricks on the grill (food tosses, creating big fires, etc. etc.). Then he skillfully prepares each person’s dish to their specifications.
The Big Lesson: Like it or not, food is social. That’s the one thing I think hits us the hardest after WLS. We think we can’t be social about food anymore. Our tiny portions, our “special food” make us seem like outsiders and sometimes we’d just rather not bother. But don’t shut yourself away! Eating is a good time to sit down and talk to people. And that can have a stress relieving effect that can actually cause you to eat less.
What’s your Favorite?
What’s your favorite eating culture? And what has it taught you about making eating more enjoyable (because...um...we're still allowed to enjoy eating!)
